Im not dating him hes fertile
The culprit behind this self-fulfilling prophecy isn’t the situation itself.
For example, imagine your partner stays at work late one night. You may act angry or cold, which then sets your partner off to feel frustrated and defensive.
Sitting home alone, your inner critic starts telling you, “Where is she? Pretty soon, you’ve completely shifted the dynamic between you.
As we get into a relationship, it isn’t just the things that go on between us and our partner that make us anxious.; it’s the things we tell ourselves about what’s going on.
The “critical inner voice” is a term used to describe the mean coach we all have in our heads that criticizes us, feeds us bad advice and fuels our fear of intimacy.
Different attachment styles can lead us to experience different levels of relationship anxiety.