Spotting abusive men dating
The most important thing to remember is that it's not your fault. They know that everyone has insecurities and they use use those insecurities against you.
Abusers can convince you that you don't deserve better treatment or that they are treating you this way to "help" you.
Threatening your children If an abuser threatens your children in any way, or even implies a threat, you must get you and your kids out.
Don't tell yourself that he doesn't really mean it. Those feelings are going to cling, sometimes no matter how badly you were abused.
Abusive girlfriends and wives are underreported because some of the male victims are too ashamed to report it.